Lady_Felicity_Steele

Yes... but; you must be able to explain to me the aspects of BDSM that turn you on or you've had fantasies about. I will not session with those who say: "I just want to try it" (you won't like it, ok?), or: "I just want you to be in charge" (again, you won't like it), or: "I just want an introduction to BDSM" (yep, same thing). What I offer is very specific and not everyone's cup of tea. I won't see anyone who I feel is likely to try to twist the session towards conventional sex once they find they don't enjoy what I offer. As long as you have a genuine interest in specific aspects of BDSM, I'm happy to explore with you at a gentle pace and with no pressure.

Yes, I'll answer... and then put the phone under a cushion so you can speak anonymously to yourself.

I can't believe I have to explain this. If you call me whilst driving, not only are you distracted from your driving, but you are distracted from your conversation with me. When my phone rings, I stop what I'm doing, turn off background noise, and give my caller my FULL attention - If you can't be bothered to have the same courtesy, please do not call. I will not discuss a session with you while you shout over traffic noise, sound at a distance/underwater (hands-free), or while you pant between every word as you walk down the street. I will also not bother trying to work out your coded hints at the activities you're looking for, when you've been stupid enough to call me within earshot of others - Be prepared to give me full details of the session you'd like, or I will hang up and mark your number as 'timewaster'. Choose an appropriate time and place to call me, hold the damn phone to your ear/mouth (seriously, is your bicep so weak you can't hold a phone up for 5 minutes?), and give me your full attention... or do not call at all. Oh... and the most annoying phrase in the English language has to be... "Can you hear me now?" - Don't say it.

If I've never met you before, and this is the way you respond when I answer the phone... I'll hang up. I don't expect anyone to grovel to me on the phone, but I do expect basic respect. Speaking to me with the over-familiarity of a double-glazing-salesman is offensive (I often get calls from advertising-space sellers, and they will ALWAYS start the conversation like this... and end it right away, I might add). I love young guys, but unfortunately, this seems to be a habit of the younger generation. Don't speak to me as if I'm your 18-year-old 'mate', please use the basic formality you would use when, for instance, calling the doctor's receptionist for an appointment, or when chasing up a job application. If we've never met, it's none of your damn business 'how I am' or whether I'm 'alright'.

No, please don't. I have a comfortable income that buys me what I want. I don't like being inundated with 'generic' gifts (flowers, perfume, wine, chocolates, etc), and I prefer to choose my own clothes/shoes. The greatest gift you can give me is a compliment! For similar reasons, I find the idea of 'wish-lists' to be very tacky; they are basically 'begging-lists'. If I want something, I buy it... I don't sit around 'wishing' for it, or degrading myself by asking it be donated to me. I'm not a charity-case, and I'm too old to be writing to Santa. If there is a piece of equipment or clothing that you are fixated on and is not included in my equipment list, please call to discuss, but I really don't need you to buy me anything... many thanks. If you truly do get off on gift-giving... visit me, chat with me, get to know me; you will then learn of things that I'd like that will not break the bank, but are very hard to find. Things I'd like cost as little as 50 pence... but will take time, effort and dedication to find. That would truly mean something to me. !!!UPDATE!!! - Ha! So many of you have asked me about this! :) OK, I collect coins! 50ps, £2ses! Find me that damn Kew Gardens 50p!... But FIND, it, ok? - Buying it off Ebay is cheating! Also, Beatrix Potter Squirrel Nutkin, a whole load of Euro 2012, and lots of others! While you're hunting through bags of coins you've exchanged at the Post Office, I know you're thinking of me! If you can just go buy something, you'll think of me for a fleeting second! Nah, I want you to be as consumed by me as I am by 50ps and £2ses, :)

No, quite the opposite! This is my own fantasy-world as much as it is yours. I like to escape the real world by stepping into the heels of Lady F... but if I didn't return to the normal world, I would get bored with it. Outside my chambers, I'm a boring nobody; INSIDE my chambers, I reign supreme!!! I love my secret, double-life!

No, I'm afraid it's not. Sometimes I have callers who feel I'm somehow obligated to session with them purely because THEY want me to. I'm picky about who I choose to see, and will only session with those I feel will enjoy my methods (this is for your benefit as well as mine). Occasionally, I've had callers who have become rude and aggressive as I've chosen not to see them; all this has done is reassured me that I made the right decision in choosing not to see them. I'm not ashamed to say that aggressive men scare me; verbal abuse, repeated calls on different numbers, or threats of bad feedback simply make me breathe a sigh of relief that I chose not to meet that person. Thankfully, these types are few and far between, but if you are the type of gentleman who reacts in such a way, please save yourself time and stress and do not call me.

Nope, and nope, lol! I messed around at school and left with 8 GCSEs (2 x Bs, 2 x Cs, 4 x Ds), got kicked off my A-Level courses for not going to classes, went to drama school and started working as an escort part-time at 18... and flirted my way through the rest of my life! It always seems sad to me that so many adult-workers proudly state that they have degrees - I'm not judging their choices, but I envy them for having a degree they're not using - I just think it's a terrible waste of intelligence and 3 years of hard work, as well as a loss to the industry that they have intensively studied... just to end up choosing a career that requires no qualifications whatsoever. Despite having had no interest in studies during my teenage years, I do have a mind hungry for 'stuff', and I'm always picking away at various subjects, just for enjoyment (including... slowly but surely... an OU degree in foreign languages). Apart from this, I talk too much, I'm lazy, I'm forgetful and scatter-brained... but all with a smile on my face and a song in my heart! :)

Forget it! - I'm too much of a feisty rebel, with too much raw passion, sexuality, fire, drive, imagination, and creativity to submit to the teachings of self-appointed superiors, just for them to mold me into yet another kohl-eye-linered-replica. I've spent my entire life exploring every corner of my own sexuality, as well as that of 1000s of others. I know only too well never to assume, and always to expect the unexpected. Rather than apply a set of teachings to you/everyone who visits me, I like to listen, discover, and find out what makes YOU, personally, go "Ooooohhhh...!!!"! I still enjoy workshops and the social side of the BDSM/fetish-scene, have met lots of nice people through it, and I like to see what others get up to... but I gently avoid the commercially-driven, prescribed, 'manufactured' vibe that so many these days like to follow. I try to stay a few steps away from becoming just another one of 'those' dommes... it's just not my style!